Good Design In Spite of Its Issues

Body Blossom



Our very generous friends at BetterSex.com sent us a Body Blossom G-Spot Vibrator to play with. In life, one must often not look a gift horse in the mouth. In PeggingLife, however, we are all about giving a real honest opinion on products our friends send us to play with. So, gift horse or not, open up, Body Blossom.

The Body Blossom is a u-shaped g-spot vibrator made from purple TPR. It is about an inch and a quarter in diameter with an insertable portion that is four inches long. The insertable shaft has three pronounced ridges and curved and pointy end for stimulating the g-spot. The other end of the ‘u’ holds the multi-function bullet vibe and a molded flower with petals and a bumpy center. This is intended to for clitoral stimulation. It is fairly flexible yet firm enough to provide pressure. TPR is slightly porous so it cannot be sterilized. It is compatible with silicone and water-based lubes. The bullet vibe has five vibration settings which you can ‘scroll’ through by pushing the on/off button.

There are three basic issues we had with the Body Blossom . First, the bullet vibe was dead right out of the box. This was not really that big of a deal for us for a number of reasons. Mrs. Peg is not a fan of vibration, at least not the high frequency vibrations typical of watch battery-powered bullet vibes. The hole for the vibe is a standard size and we were able to swap it with a bullet we already had for the sake of this review. We couldn’t test the functions, but we could feel how well the toy transmitted the vibrations. (Surprisingly, the toy transmit vibrations pretty well. The vibrations were felt best at the flower, but you could feel them at the tip as well.) The third reason the bullet thing really wasn’t an issue is because BetterSex.com has some pretty stellar customer service. If this weren’t the proverbial gift horse I know I could have called customer service for a replacement without a problem.

Our second issue with the Body Blossom is that the flower is twisted slightly off center. It is not formed in such a way that the center does not rest on Mrs. Peg’s clit. Instead the petals are on Mrs. Peg’s clit. I am not sure if this is a design flaw, intentional, or a product defect. Looking a the pictures on the website, though, it seems like a product defect. Again, customer service would fix this without an issue I am sure.

Our third issue is exacerbated by the second issue. The petal of the flower that would be resting on Mrs. Peg’s clit is sticking straight out perpendicular to the toy. This is surely a design flaw. I think it just cooled this way after the toy was cast. Whatever the cause, this rendered the toy unusable in it current state because the petal, while flexible, is stiff enough to be extremely uncomfortable for Mrs. Peg. Once again, if this were a freebie we have sought a replacement from customer service. Our solution was a sharp modeling knife….no more petals.

Mrs. Peg really enjoys having a toy inside of her while I fuck her (providing the toy has a narrow enough girth). The Body Blossom is just about maxing out the girth limit but we made it work. The shape provides very good g-spot stimulation and the ridges ad a nice bit of texture. It is, in spite of the flower, a nicely shaped toy and fun to play with. In all, we would recommend this toy. And remember, if you do have a problem, get in touch with customer service. BetterSex.com stands behind what it sells.

Have fun and play safely!





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***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Like a BOSS!

We love Fun Factory. We have tried a number of their toys and by and large, we are VERY happy with them. We really love the Click ‘n’ Charge toys that they make. The motors are strong with deep vibrations; the batteries are rechargeable and their ability to hold a charge is impressive; and they are very well made from body-safe materials. In fact, up until very recently, the Ocean has been Mrs. Peg’s go-to vibrator.

About two months ago I found myself in the hospital for a number of days and then on strict bed rest for a number of weeks after. Without getting too far into the details, I was pretty much limited to elevating my head just enough to keep from choking when eating and drinking (yet another use for our Liberator Wedge !) and absolutely no physical activity. Fortunately for Mrs. Peg, our good friends at GoodVibes.com had sent us a Big Boss to try out.

Now, honestly, I had every intention of making this a ME toy when I found out it was on its way. After all, Mrs. Peg has that Ocean she likes so much. I was really looking forward to giving this 9” dildo (6 ½” of which are insertable) with its 1 and ¾” girth a try. I very much enjoy the low frequency, strong vibrations that are characteristic of Fun Factory’s vibes. Circumstances being what they were at the time, Mrs. Peg got her hands on the Big Boss and I don’t think she will be giving it up. It is worth noting that the Big Boss is a silicone vibrator which is waterproof so it can be soaked to keep it clean. Because of its internal working parts it cannot be boiled. There is also a seam between the silicone shaft and the ABS control ‘handle.’ For this reason we are not really comfortable using this vibe as an anal and vaginal toy. I’d rather be safe than insistent that I get to play with it too.

I was home for about 4 days when I suggested to Mrs. Peg that she give the Big Boss a try. My wife was very reluctant at first to pleasure herself while I was subject to my doctor imposed chastity. I told her that she shouldn’t have to wait for some indeterminate amount of time just because I couldn’t participate. Besides, I confessed, I really enjoy watching her get herself off. I also thought I could help as long as I didn’t move around too much.



The first time Mrs. Peg used the Big Boss she was laying beside me. I really had a horrible view except to see that she was really enjoying herself. The vibrator’s motor is close to the handle end, not in its tip. The vibrations are, therefore, focused on her vaginal opening while inserted. She can also focus on her clit while the toy remains inside of her, thanks to its flexible shaft. The handle has a loop for your finger which makes it easy to hold onto and very controllable. The buttons on the handle are well-placed and easy to use. While I couldn’t see much, I could feel her orgasm as she gripped my hand and quivered next to me.

The next time Mrs. Peg used the Big Boss was a much better show for me. As I lay there in bed, Mrs. Peg set up a Fetish Series Sex Stool above me. This stool has a tubular metal frame and two clear vinyl straps that allow her to straddle the gap and have access to her lady parts. Centered above my chest, Mrs. Peg lowered herself onto the stool, pussy invitingly slightly parted in front of me. She handed me the Big Boss and whispered, “Please fuck me.”

I applied a bit of water-based Sliquid lube to the tip of the dildo and pressed its massive defined head to my wife’s pussy. Her swollen lips spread to accept its girth just inches in front of my face. It was a glorious sight to give my wife pleasure and to have such an amazing view. Mrs. Peg’s hand found my and took control of the Big Boss pushing it deeper and faster into her. It emerged glistening now more with her juices than the lube. She slid the vibrator from between her lips and whispered, “Taste me” as she pushed the head into my mouth, fucking my face as she worked her clit to orgasm.

I am better now and back to doing the things we enjoy. The Big Boss continues to make frequent appearances in our play. My favorite is when it is the other cock in while double penetrating Mrs. Peg. That way I get to enjoy its vibrations too. However you choose to play with the Big Boss, we are sure you will enjoy it too.



Have fun and play safely!!









*****WE RECEIVED THIS PRODUCT AS A FREE SAMPLE FROM OUR FRIENDS AT THE GoodVibes.com AND Good Vibrations. THANKS AMANDA! The fact that I got this free really has no bearing on the honesty of this review. ******



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

We Ride the iRide

iRide Vibrator Seat



A few weeks ago our good friends at BetterSex.com offered us the opportunity to try out the iRide Vibrator Seat by Doc Johnson in exchange for our thoughts about the product. I couldn’t say ‘YES!’ fast enough. We had been wanting to try one since the first time we saw it. All in all, the iRide was a whole lot of fun….but not like we had expected.

Mrs. Peg was the first to try out the iRide. Honestly, she found it pretty unremarkable. While the insertable shaft was the right size to be very comfortable, she felt that it would feel better if it had a little more of a forward curve in order to provide pressure to the anterior wall of her vagina. The egg shaped clitoral bump didn’t really do much for her either. I will say that for my part I was looking forward to watching her rock herself to orgasm while riding the toy. In reality it looked like a bizarre little saddle and my wife just couldn’t find a rhythm that worked for her. In the end we gave up on it and proceeded to play without the iRide.

A few days later I, being one who is not shy about anal stimulation, decided to give the iRide a ride. I had a completely different experience with this toy! Not only was I able to ride it to a massive shuddering orgasm but I also had a number or ejaculate free mini p-spot orgasms! I put the iRide on a short stool, eased the shaft into my ass, and made myself comfortable in the saddle. The shaft is a perfect length for p-spot stimulation and the girth was easy for me to accommodate. (Those new to anal play may want to work their way up to this.) Like Mrs. Peg, I also feel that a forward curve would be even better. Unlike Mrs. Peg, I found that the clitoral bump does a wonderful job as a perineum massager and provides a nice bit or pressure on the base of your penis. My balls were comfortable hanging over the edge of the saddle and I had free access to play with my cock. I did find that I got the most internal stimulation by leaning far forward. For me, the high vibration settings were just right.

There are a few considerations to be aware of when using the iRide. First, this toy is made from ABS and TPR so it cannot be sterilized. If it is going to be used by multiple partners or in multiple orifices, please be sure to use a condom on it. Also, the iRide is a battery killer. It takes four AA batteries which are inserted into the base. I get the best experience from strong vibrations and I found they don’t last long which causes the intensity of vibration to drop off. Finally, the iRide is not waterproof. There is a space between the shaft and the saddle where water, excessive amounts of lube, or pussy squirts can easily get into making it a true challenge to keep this toy clean. I had hoped that the whole TPR covering was one seamless piece of material. My only other complaint is the color. This toy would look great in blue and gray, or black and gray; I am not a fan of the pink sex toy!

I felt kind of bad that I had a much better time on something that we had intended for Mrs. Peg, but at least it wasn’t a complete waste. If you are woman who doesn’t require a very thuddy, low frequency vibration, this will probably work well for you too. It is definitely worth a try!

Have fun and play safely!





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***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Organic? Well….kind of.

Intimate Organics Flavored Lube



A few weeks ago our good friends at BetterSex.com sent us a bottle of Wild Cherries Flavored Lube by Intimate Organics. I was initially very excited. First, it was totally unexpected. Lickable lubes are especially nice when mixing oral and penetrative play. Unfortunately my excitement was short lived.

Intimate Organics’ BetterSex.com sent us a bottle of Wild Cherries Flavored Lube is a water-based lube whose first ingredient is glycerin. Glycerin is a definite show-stopper for Mrs. Peg.

As far as being organic, it is important to note that only the extracts are certified organic. There entire list of ingredients is: Glycerin, Propylene Glycol, Aroma, Aqua, Alcohol, Lycium Barbarum Fruit Extract, Cymbopogon Schoenantus Extract, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Extract, and Sodium Saccharin. We have used other organic lubes that had far more organic ingredients than a few flavoring extracts. It is also interesting to note that there are no cherries in this list at all. Lycium Barbarum Fruit is Wolfberry (a.k.a. gogi berry) and Cymbopogon Schoenantus is a close relation to lemon grass.

To be clear, I don’t think this would be a bad lube. It gets a little sticky with exposure to air, so it isn’t great for handjobs. Mrs. Peg is not one to use a lube for blowjobs so we didn’t try that. However, for people not sensitive to glycerine it should be just fine. Flavor-wise it tastes pretty good although it does have a slight warming sensation on the tongue. This may also affect those with sensitive lady parts. Knowing what you are getting in advance makes a world of difference.

Have fun and play safely!





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***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Tush Tickling Tutor

Tickle My Tush by Dr. Sadie Allison is a proof positive that good things come in small packages. It may look small and a bit thin but its 134 pages are filled with useful information for those new to anal play or seasoned player like Mrs. Peg and myself. In fact it promises “Mild-to-Wild Analplay Adventures for Everybooty!”

If you are new to anal sex, or need to hear the sales pitch, you may find the first five chapters informative. If you are more experienced they are still worth the read, but you may not get anything more than a few chuckles out of them. Dr. Allison gives all the necessary info in an easy to read and humorous playful way.

For us, things started getting really interesting at in Chapter 6, Sensual Booty Massage. In just eight short pages Dr. Allison provides great information on technique, positioning, what feels best, and how to keep things fun and naughty. And after all, isn’t that what sensual massage is really all about?!

Chapter 9 is all about fingerplay! This chapter is, again, super informative. There is information on technique, depth of penetration, how to move your fingers, how many to put in there and a few positions that both partners will enjoy. This chapter is especially useful for digital prostate massage although there are plenty of ways to make her feel good too.

Chapter 8 is for the orally adventurous. Enough said.

The ninth chapter focuses on penetrating her. For the penetrating partner, there are tips on making sure she is ready to receive. There is also a page for her that provides a few pointers on receiving. The peggee may find these equally useful. Finally, there are a few more suggestions on what to do once everyone is comfortable and ready for some real action.

Chapter 10 is an oddly placed comparative essay on the p-spot (or ‘he-spot’ as she likes to call it) and the g-spot. Personally I would have made this Chapter 6 but that’s just me. I don’t know that we learned anything here, but it’s here for those who may need a primer on the subjects.

Chapter 11 is all about another one of our favorite subjects: Hot BUTT TOYS! This is really a pretty good guide to the types of toys that are out there, what you may like about them, and what to consider when shopping for them.

Of course what book on analplay would be complete without a chapter dedicated to our favorite topic: PEGGING! Chapter 12 gives you everything you need to know if you are knew to strapon play. There are tips on harness selection, positioning, why it won’t make you gay and even a bit on harness for use on her.

While there are some positioning guides throughout the other chapters, Dr. Allison devotes all of Chapter 13 to nothing but positions. There are positions for receiving with ease. There are positions for giving with ease. There are positions that we just hadn’t considered before. And of course you can get a good laugh out of some of the names she has given them.

Dr. Allison wraps up with some F.A.Qs, or Frequently Assed Questions in chapter 14. The brevity of this chapter speaks to the thoroughness of the previous thirteen chapters. I am not sure these points couldn’t have been worked in elsewhere, but there it is.

I don’t think Tickle My Tushie is the best sex ed book out there. It is, however, a fun read. It is also a light and humorous way to introduce the possibility of anal play into a relationship.





Have fun and play safely!!







*****WE RECEIVED THIS PRODUCT AS A FREE SAMPLE FROM OUR FRIENDS AT THE GoodVibes.com AND Good Vibrations. THANKS AMANDA! The fact that I got this free really has no bearing on the honesty of this review. ******



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Give the Best for Valentine’s Day

February is almost upon us, which means there are just about two more weeks left before Valentine’s Day! If you are looking for something to get your special someone, why not let our friends at EdenFantasys help you out with some gift ideas. From the hundreds of sex toys that are available on their site, they have come up with the Best of 2011. We think it is a pretty good list!

Some of our favorites made this list, including the venerable Hitachi Magic Wand and the ultra awesome nJoy Pure Wand. If you are ready to show the one you love that they are REALLY special, you cannot go wrong with these wonderful wands. The Hitachi will blow their mind with its amazing vibrations (which are capable of getting those of us with penises off as well), and the nJoy will reach all the right places.

Of course if your relationship isn’t quite ready for high-end sex toys, there is always the wonderfully romantic KNEAD ME MASSAGE SET from JimmyJane. This set is just the thing to help you get in touch with your more sensitive sides. And if things work out well, a littleSYSTEM JO H2O LUBE will make sure everything else goes super smoothly.

Then again, maybe you plan on spending the night by yourself. In that case a little self-loving may be in order. And if self-loving is on your dance card, a good movie like the exciting fast-paced action of Speed will get your heart racing and your juices flowing. And, depending on your plumbing, the Ella dildo or the Fleshlight STU Masturbator is all you will need to rock your world.

However you plan to spend your holiday, we hope it is safe and happy.



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Get your Peg On!

Valentine’s Day is just around the corner and you know what that means…..it is time start looking for that sexy gift to give your lover. This is that one time of year, in fact, that you have complete permission to maybe push beyond the normal boundaries of your relationship and suggest something a little more that what is expected or considered safe. For us, it seems like the perfect time to introduce a little PEGGING into your relationship!



We have a few tips if you are new to pegging. First, make sure you have a LOT of lube on hand. For us, because we play mostly with silicone toys, it needs to be water-based. Second, start small, but not too small; the peggee needs to be able to feel it in order to enjoy it. Third, make sure you are talking. If it is a concern, PEGGING WON’T MAKE YOU GAY! (and seriously, there is NOTHING WRONG WITH BEING GAY, BI, or OPEN TO THE POSSIBILITIES!!). Fourth, don’t be afraid to have fun! Harnesses, for one, are hard to put on (for the most part….see our upcoming piece on the RodeoH harnesses for something that is really easy to get on!) and you have to be able to laugh about it. Finally, manage your expectations and don’t think you have to get it right the first time. After all, how many really great things were perfect the first time you tried it?



We also have a few thoughts in regard to buying your first harness. Quality is important, but so is price. We don’t suggest breaking the bank the first time out of the gate. There are a lot of decent nylon harnesses out there that will serve the purpose long enough to decide whether you want to be living the Pegging Life. Many of these harnesses come with a dildo as a set. We recommend getting a set that comes with a silicone dildo. If you and your lover enjoy pegging, a silicone dildo is safe and will last much longer. If, however, pegging is not for you, a good silicone dildo can always serve other purposes once properly cleaned. When you decide to upgrade harnesses, you really can’t beat a Joque or a Theo for comfort, wearability, and durability or a RodeoH for that anywhere/anytime spontaneity some lovers crave.

EdenFantasys is your one-stop shop for all of your Valentine’s Day gift giving needs. Whether you are looking for a strap-on harness and dildo set or something sexy to wear, they have you covered. They also carry a full line of sexy costumes if you want to get a little dressed up. And of course, they have all the Sex Toys you could want to play long into the night.







As always you can use Coupon Code ‘SMK’ during checkout to save 15% off your non-sale items. Also, your order always ships free if you purchase more than $59.00 worth of merchandise after any discounts.



Have fun and play safely!









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