Tantric Massage Oil

Tantric Massage Oil



We received a bottle of Tantric Massage Oil by California Exotic Novelties from our good friends at BetterSex.com. Talk about Friends with Benefits! This oil, aside from being a free sample, is really quite nice.

The sample we received was the Green Tea with Pheromones. It has a very clean scent with a sweet floral overtone. I am NOT into floral scents, but this is not overpowering in concentrate or in use. I cannot attest to the existence or efficacy of the pheromones. I am pretty much always up for some playtime with Mrs. Peg, be that a pegging session or a romantic massage. Most times the latter ends with us making love. Did the pheromones make it happen? As far as I am concerned, I don’t think so.

The Tantric Massage Oil comes in a 4 oz. black spray bottle. It is not really sexy looking. Personally I would rather it come in a clear bottle with a nicer picture on the front. I have mixed feeling about the spray bottle. The benefit of having a spray bottle is that it delivers a measured amount of oil in a nicely dispersed mist. A few squirts and I had applied the perfect amount to Mrs. Peg’s shoulders. The downside is covering a large area gives your spray finger a workout. Also, spritzing your lover is not nearly as sexy as pouring warm liquid onto their skin and watching it travel down their spine.

The oil itself has the right amount of slippage. It isn’t too greasy but it is slick enough to allow for a virtually friction-free rub down. Ingredients include: Soybean Oil, Green Tea Leaf Extract, Kukui Nut Seed Oil, Cannibis Sativa (Hemp) Seed Oil, Safflower Seed Oil, Sunflower Oil, Sweet Almond Oil, and Vitamin A, C, and E. This product has not been tested on animals.

We highly recommend warming this product in a bowl of warm water. However, another drawback of the mist is that the oil does not go on really warm. However, if it is too cold it will certainly be noticed. Be sure when giving a massage that you do not massage areas that look infected, are hot to the touch, are inflamed, or painful when touched. This is especially true of the calves as theses signs could be indicative of a clot. Untreated clots in the leg are a potential medical emergency and massaging them could cause them to break free and start moving.



Joy of Erotic Massage DVD and Book Sex Kit

As a compliment to this spray, we highly recommend the Joy of Erotic Massage DVD and Book Sex Kit. You may just have a really good time learning a thing or two!

Have fun and play safely!





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*****WE RECEIVED THIS PRODUCT AS A FREE SAMPLE FROM OUR FRIENDS AT THE BETTERSEX NETWORK AND BETTERSEX.COM. THANKS K!!! The fact that I got this free really has no bearing on the honesty of this review. It’s a whole lot of fun!! ******



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

H2Joooooh!

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Freaky Friday

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Christmas Decorations and Dildos

About five years ago I started filling two stocking for Mrs. Peg on Christmas Eve. One is a classic stocking made of plaid fabric with a metallic rope hand stitched into a celtic knot on the cuff. I made this for her the first year we were married. This one hangs from the mantle next to the University of Florida Gators stocking she made for me. I made my wife’s other stocking as well. This one usually hangs from our footboard and is your standard red and white faux fur stocking with fishnet hose pulled over it.

The mantle stocking gets filled with typical stocking stuff: perfume, makeup, candy, fancy coffee, etc. The bedroom stocking gets filled with lube, dildos, massage candles, sexy panties and hosiery….basically the type of stuff you can find on EdenFantasys. I like to give my wife naughty things, but because we usually have a house guest or two, I can’t exactly leave them under the tree. The second stocking seemed like a good plan.

Last year I was feeling little naughty myself and decided to slip the glass Candy Cane Dildo I purchased for Mrs. Peg into her “vanilla” stocking. It is just that pretty that it could pass as a Christmas decoration. I should mention that her mother was visiting us last year. Turns out, she didn’t suspect a thing. The Candy Cane did, however, find its rightful place in the bedroom later that evening. This year is it on the mantle waiting for Santa to come down the chimney and make the Mrs. go ho-ho-ho.



EdenFantasys is the perfect place for all of your sexy gift-giving needs. They have an extensive collection of sex toys, alluring holiday costumes, sexy lingerie to keep things hot once even if it’s cold outside, and club wear for those adults-only holiday parties.

The great thing about EdenFantasys is that it is more than a sex toy shop. Personally, I am using some of my points (don’t know about the points….sign up for an account here and just about everything you do on EdenFantasys earns you points which you can cash in for products!) to buy my sister some massage products. She’s not too shy to admit she likes a good massage from her man and I am not too shy to give her an intimate gift for them to enjoy together. This type of gift is also suitable for those just beginning a relationship.



As always you can use Coupon Code ‘SMK’ during checkout to save 15% off your non-sale items. Also, your order always ships free if you purchase more than $59.00 worth of merchandise after any discounts.

Have fun and enjoy the holiday season!

Keep Sex Positive…Give Sex Toys For Gifts

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Christmas is Cumming

As I mentioned in a previous post, Halloween is my favorite holiday. I love seeing Mrs. Peg dressed up in a sexy costume and having a little fun with role playing. In that same post, I also mentioned that Christmas is Mrs. Peg’s favorite holiday. The good thing is, you can always get a little dressed up for this holiday too! After all, a sexy Mrs. Claus is sometimes the best way to determine just how naughty you can be.



Our good friends at EdenFantasys have everything you need to keep Christmas sexy this year. They have some beautiful costumes if you are looking to get dressed up like Mrs. Claus one of Santa’s helpers. They also have an extensive line of sexy lingerie for those long nights in front of the fire or cuddling under the comforter. And if you need something sexy to wear to that special party, check out their collection of club wear. Of course EdenFantasys is best known for their huge collection of quality sex toys, and EVERYONE deserves to find a sex toy under the tree!. What you may not know is that EF is also now carrying cosmetics and bath and body products which make great stocking stuffers as well as gifts to those people you may not be comfortable giving sex toys to.



EdenFantasys is your one-stop shop for all of your sexy holiday shopping needs. As always you can use Coupon Code ‘SMK’ during checkout to save 15% off your non-sale items. Also, your order always ships free if you purchase more than $59.00 worth of merchandise after any discounts.

Have fun and enjoy the holiday season!

SM101: Not Just Another Crash Course in Kink

When I was going to college my introductory courses allowed me to get explore some ideas, exposed me to others, and basically gave me a good foundation to continue my studies. They also allowed me opportunity to discover I had a knack for accounting…and NOT computer programming. None of them, however, held the promise for pleasure and pain the way that SM101: A Realistic Introduction does.

To be sure, SM101: A Realistic Introduction is NOT your garden variety crash course in kink. Jay Wiseman, the author, has compiled in this volume what can only be described as the most thorough introduction to S&M that we have ever come across. He covers every aspect of S&M from CBT, to nipple torture, to rope work. And he doesn’t just give you enough information to make you a danger to yourself and your play partner. He whets your appetite, explains what you should and should not be doing, and gives you enough of a understanding to allow for informed exploration.

Master Wiseman begins the book with just the type of introduction you can expect on the first day of any class. He tells you who he is. He tells you about his experiences. And most importantly, he tells you how those experience have led to him writing the SM101 . He then explains who the book is for and what the student can expect to discover within its pages.

The rest of the book is focused on the art of S&M. He starts you off with the basics, covers bondage, pain, implements for delivering erotic pain, and the relationship between the dom and the sub. What we really liked about this is that the book is very gender neutral. Regardless of who is dominant in your relationship, this book had meaningful and relevant information for both of you. There is a chapter titled A Novice Woman’s Guide to Erotically Dominating a Man which provides some gender-specific information that can be especially helpful, especially if this is a role-reversal for a couple.

The author also provides an extensive amount of resources on everything from finding play palaces to what to do if you’re S&M relationship becomes abusive. There is a glossary, a list of interesting S&M sayings that will introduce you to the ethos of the lifestyle, and how to set up a starter set. Personally, I can’t think of anything that might have been left out. Like I said, this is a THOROUGH introduction!



I have always wanted to go to a sex-ed class like those offered by Good Vibrations. I think it is a great way to learn. What’s more, I think Mrs. Peg and I would have a blast. Unfortunately, we live in North Florida and there simply aren’t too many of the kind of classes we’d like to attend being offered around here. Instruction-wise, I think this book is really the next best thing. It is informative, thoughtful, and well-written. Could we learn more kneeling at the feet of the master? I am sure we could. But this is truly a great, and realistic, introduction to the in and outs of real S&M play.

Have fun and play safely!!







*****WE RECEIVED THIS PRODUCT AS A FREE SAMPLE FROM OUR FRIENDS AT THE GoodVibes.com AND Good Vibrations. THANKS AMANDA! The fact that I got this free really has no bearing on the honesty of this review portion of this story. We REALLY like this toy!! ******



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Sex Toys Save Lives!!

Okay, so maybe saying “Sex Toys Save Lives” might be overstating it a bit. However, I am hoping that the commissions I earned from selling sex toys during the month of October might help. You see, at the beginning of Brest Cancer Awareness Month I pledged all the commissions I earned during Ocotber from EdenFantasys would be given to the Save The Ta-Tas Foundation. Well the results are in and I am pleased to announce that I will be sending a check in the amount of $141.16 to the foundations as soon as I receive my payout.

And speaking of results, EdenFantasys has announced the winners of their Breast Cancer Awareness Video Contest. Be sure to check them out. While I might not agree with their choices, I do applaud the contributors for sharing their submissions. The third place winner is still very poignant, and in my mind, worth first place. EdenFantasys seemed to appreciate the light fare more.

I would like to thank all of our supporters and followers who used affiliate code “SMK” while purchasing sex toys at EdenFantasys during the month of October. We hope you enjoyed saving 15% off your purchase price and, more importantly, the fact that you may have possibly helped to save a life.



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***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Bendy Bead Home Cumming

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Costumes Aren’t Just for Halloween … but if you need an excuse…

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Clamp, Meet Nipple...Nipple, Meet Ectasy

The last time I was in California, I made a special trip to San Francisco to visit my favorite sex toy shop, Good Vibrations. I stopped at both the Valencia Street and the Polk Street Stores. While at the Polk Street store I ran into Dr. Carol Queen (**GUSH!!!**) after the “Open Invitation” release party. It was the highlight of my trip. I also bought a pair of Butterfly Endurance Nipple Clamps. NOT the best thing I purchased on the trip.

I have been looking for a quality set of nipple clamps with some holding power. We have a set of Tweezer Nipple Clips. These work; they always have. They hold well, the pressure is adjustable and …. we've had them forever. I think that is why I’ve been looking for something new. Our tweezer style set are just old and I think I am getting bored of them.

We also have a set of Nob Hill Nipple Clamps. These excel as labia clamps. They are not exceptional nipple clamps. I don’t find that they hold well and adjusting the gripping strength is a bit of hassle when dealing with sensitive nipples. But like I said, they are wonderful labia clamps.

Now you would think that I may have been tipped off by the word “ENDURANCE” on the box, but perhaps I was still coming down from my run-in with Dr. Queen. When I got back to my room I gave the Butterfly Clamps a try and…..YOWZA!!!!! They are really strong……really, REALLY strong! I cannot wear them for very long at all and I will not put them on Mrs. Peg. So my search for a suitable NEW pair or nipple clamps continued.





We LOVE Dr. Queen!!



Happily, our search is over. The Bound to Please Nipple Clamps are, in our judgment, the BEST nipple clamps we have tried to date. The gripping strength is fully adjustable, they hold really well, they have a nice weight to them, and they look fantastic on. One of my complaints with the Tweezer Nipple Clips is that they are kind of plain looking. Our new set of matte black Bound to Please Nipple Clamps look exotic against Mrs. Peg’s skin.

These clamps have a barely perceptible layer of rubberized material on the tips to allow them to grip flesh securely. It is, obviously, more noticeable on the silver pair. This is in stark contrast to the usual rubber tips on other nipple clamps. The thin layer provides a nice, clean look.

The clamps are secured by a knurled nut that compresses a spring which, in turn, closes the “mandibles” around the wearer’s nipple. We STRONGLY recommend working the nut up and down the threaded rod several times before applying for the first time. I don’t know about the chromed version, but the pair we have is painted black and the paint causes the nut to bind which makes removal exceptionally difficult, especially when you get to the “GET THEM OFF, NOW!” point. This can be eased a little bit by squeezing the spring but this means squeezing the nipple a little more as well. However, if you wear a little of the paint away, a play time disaster can be easily avoided.

The chain on the Bound to Please Nipple Clamps is also attached by a knurled nut. This can be removed is you desire by simply unscrewing these nuts. This makes the clamp a little lighter and somewhat better for wearing under a shirt or inside a bra.

These clamps are also well-suited for clitoral clamping. The small size of the tips make it easy to grab small area. The design also makes it easy to slip inside the head of the penis should you wish to add a little fun torture to your play. Just be sure they are nice a clean beforehand.

I could not be happier with these clamps. I believe I speak for Mrs. Peg as well. They are, first and foremost, very functional without being very painful (you can change this by cranking down on the nut or squeezing the springs!). They also feel wonderful and look fantastic dangling off Mrs. Peg’s nipples. What more could you want?!?!

Have fun and play safely!



All commissions earned from sales through GoodVibes.com in the month of October will be donated to SaveTheTaTas.org .



*****WE RECEIVED THIS PRODUCT AS A FREE SAMPLE FROM OUR FRIENDS AT THE GoodVibes.com AND Good Vibrations. THANKS AMANDA! The fact that I got this free really has no bearing on the honesty of this review. We REALLY like this toy!! ******



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***

Save the Ta-Tas and some money too!

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Get the Motion Dog Days mount and a Fleshlight and Save 25% at EdenFantasys!

I used to travel….a LOT! Mrs. Peg got me a full set of Fleshlights before I went on a particularly long series of trips that would have us apart for weeks at a time. I credit my Fleshlight Lady, Fleshlight Butt, and Fleshlight Mouth with preserving, at the very least, my sanity during those long trips. A well-lubed Lady is the next best thing to the real thing as far as I was concerned. However, in those days I used to have to stack pillows up on the bed, jam the case between the mattresses, or nestle the toy between some couch cushions.

We still have cause to play with our Fleshlights, but these days we use our Motion Dog Day mount to hold the case. Mrs. Peg and I like to me fuck one of the inserts while she fucks me with a strapon. This mount has allowed us to play out some wonderful fantasies without the hassle of trying to negotiate having someone join us in the bedroom.

If you are interested in exploring some similar fantasies, or just having a sturdy, well-built mount and a Fleshlight to sink your cock into, now is your chance. Our good friends at EdenFantasys are currently offering a 25% discount when you buy a Fleshlight along with the Motion Dog Days Mount. Purchased together, you can expect to save about $40 during this sale. Of course they have tons of other sex toys to choose from too. Click on over and check out all that is EdenFantasys!

Check out our review of the Motion Dog Days HERE.

$99.99Fleshlight motion dog days Position pillow by Liberator Bedroom Adventure Gear Material: Faux-Leather Buy from EdenFantasys

The great thing about this sale is you aren’t limited to any one particular Fleshlight. You can pick one of the standard forms like the Mouth, the Butt, the Pure, or my favorite, the Lady. You can also get the Ice versions. More importantly, however, you can pick one of the Fleshlight Girls versions. If you have ever fantasized about sinking your cock into Stoya’s beautiful pussy, here’s your chance!

Whichever one you choose, have fun and play safely!



***Pegging is the sexual act of a woman using a strapon dildo to anally penetrate her male partner.***